CHANGING
Changing is the word I would use to describe my life. My life is ever
changing!
In my professional life I
embrace change. It makes my daily life
more exciting and challenges me to transcend my comfort zone.
In my personal
life I have trouble initiating or adjusting to change. The last 2 years have brought a great deal of change to my life.
After my sons graduated and began to work full time, my role as a mother
changed drastically. The amount of time
we spend together as a family is very different. I had these “Turn Around” moments when I
would wistfully long for those “little boy” times. I had to choose whether to melt into a
sobbing blob or build the rest of our relationship on that precious past. I have learned to embrace our new mother son
relationship and appreciate the change now.
I can also see that the extra time I have to spend with my best friend,
my loving husband, has truly been a major benefit of this change.
We also recently moved my mother from her home of 80 years to an independent living community. When we sold her home I was devastated. To me…it represented one of the rocks our
family was built on. It was solid. Never changing and always welcoming. …And with this change I began to realize how
much my relationship with my mother has been changing. I always kid around and say that I don’t have
to worry because my mother does all of the worrying for me. But I guess I have realized there is a bit of
truth to that. As old as I am I realized
I still depend on my mother for moral support and encouragement. Every night I call her before bed and say
good night and tell her I love her. She was quite
sick for some time and I missed doing that so much so that again I felt that
“Turn Around” moment. Only this time
realizing my mother is tired and growing older too, and someday soon, I will have to say
good-bye. Again I needed to embrace this
change and see it as a blessing. My Mother has accepted the challenge presented by her struggles and is totally focused on the present and the future. NOT the PAST. I still learn from my wise mother. Focus on the "NOW" and what you CAN change, the future!
I can now embrace the changing me and see change as a blessing in my
life!
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